victim-hood Archives

Killing Your Inner Victim

There are random acts, but no random lives. As you now know, your life (whether we’re discussing the old one or the reboot you desire to create) is the harvest of the thoughts you give precedence to. And the daily actions those thoughts produce. While it may sound simplistic to some, the profound truth is that when you transform your thoughts, you can transform your life. The final and decisive step of this transformation is the release of victimhood.

Are You Really Living Your Life?

I get asked frequently why I’m so hard on organized religion. Most who ask believe I’m on a crusade to convert the world to atheism. In actuality, that’s the last thing I want to do. There are many people whose faith nourishes their souls and lives in wondrous ways, and that’s a beautiful thing to behold.

Co-Creating Your Own Prosperity

You probably already figured it out. These types of statements are spoken by people who want to play the victim card and feel that bad things always “happen” to them. They never take responsibility for the trauma and drama continually swirling around them.

Looking in the Mirror

You either play the victim card, and try to blame your circumstances on external factors. Or you take responsibility and co-create your life.

Throwing Off the Shackles of Slavery

I believe that self-imposed slavery is worse than slavery that is imposed on you by someone else. Because if you actually are a slave, you probably had no choice in the matter. But to exile yourself into servitude and limitation, what a horrific tragedy that is.

Occupation: Victim

And instead of devoting energy on achieving success – you squander it all on trying to identify, explain, and validate why it’s simply not possible for you to achieve success.

Are You a Professional Victim?

Do you ever talk about abuse you endured, things that were withheld from you, absence of love or affection, etc. If you are talking about them with anyone other than a professional therapist, then you are wallowing in victim-hood.

The Clues of Victimhood…

This perverse behavior is some of the most negative, unhealthy and dysfunctional bullshit people can ever subject themselves to. Eventually they end up actually manifesting and attracting worse treatment – to justify this perverted vision they have of themselves.

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