Yes you can penalize the waiter on the tip because he didn’t bring the extra mayo he promised. You can sigh loudly because the lady in front of you at the supermarket seems to think taking out her checkbook and ID is a five-minute task.
You can blast your horn because the guy in the other car cut in too close to you. You can stay mad an extra hour or two, to really make your spouse pay for their mistake.
Or not. So what are you choosing?