Service to others can be a very dangerous sword. It can bring you unparalleled joy. Or it can be another act of codependency, taking care of others above your self, or a continuance of worthiness issues.
You have to love yourself first, take care of your own needs first and serve yourself first. Until you are whole, you can't help others really. But once you have done that – then serving others can be one of the most rewarding things you can do. And there is almost no better time to do it than when the holidays and Holy Days are upon us.
Why not think now about how you might serve others this season, and make it your best ever?