In the last post I raised the example of you getting offered a business opportunity, and you immediately getting a feeling that it was a bad deal. I asked you if it was your intuition warning you, or your negative programming just creating a negative thought to sabotage you and keep you stuck.
So what did you come up with? And how do you know for sure?
Well I have some bad news. When you are in a negative thought cycle, there is no way to really know yourself. Your negative programming will always cause you to find the cloud in every silver lining. The good news is that once your prosperity consciousness has developed, you will be deeply in touch with your intuition and know the difference. But what do you do until then?
You need to have people further along the journey than you, who help you out. You need to be able to “check things out” with them. They will know you, and your negative tendencies. So they can advise you whether the course you are disregarding may actually have some value.
That doesn’t mean they are investment advisors or they replace lawyers, accountants, and other appropriate professionals. But it does mean that you have an external source to check things out with. And that helps you develop your positive instincts. Look for people that are living the kind of life you want, and who are confident enough in who they are that they don’t need to shoot you down. Look for people that care about you enough to tell you the truth in a loving way. Then when you reach that state, you can pay it forward to others.