Tag: self-esteem

stoicism

Surviving Life’s Roller Coasters

Today you may want to ponder how you respond to the ups and downs of life.
New Year's Eve 2023

The Possibilities of 2023…

Welcome to a fresh, tasty edition of Friday Filosophy – the weekly postcard where I challenge you with a question, idea, or topic you may want to think about. Today the thing I’d love to challenge you on is your approach to the New Year.
self-development

Create Your Best Life

Christmas and Hanukah are in the rearview mirror and the New Year is beckoning.  It’s a time for reflection and introspection.  So as you do this, I’d like to share some thoughts about that…
self-development

Tell Yourself the Truth!

The reason your budget is tight isn't because the Saudis raised the price of oil, your boss is cheap, or big corporations are greedy.  Your money is tight because you spend more than you take in.  The reason your current girlfriend or boyfriend has some of the same neurosis as your last four has nothing to do with them.  It is all about you.  And that is the nature of the human animal.  We find evidence that supports our foundational beliefs and if we can’t find any, we manufacture it to conform with our desired view of the world. 
going crazy

How You Are Slowly Driven Insane

You really are living in a Matrix; it’s just not configured like the one in the movies.  The real Matrix is a collection of machines used for surveillance and data-gathering.  (This includes every online search you perform, what you buy, every website you visit, your social media posts, the things you ask your voice assistants, the apps running in the background on your phone, and what you stream for entertainment.) Then this data is exploited to manipulate your habits, moods, identity, beliefs, and behaviors.  The objectives are to make you feel powerless, needy, and helpless – and drive you to take self-destructive actions that reward the managers of the Matrix.
self-esteem

Frolic with the Orcas

If you’re swimming in a pool, the water is usually clear.  When you move to a lake, the water gets deeper and can get cloudy.  When you’re swimming in the ocean, now there are 30-foot waves and great white sharks.  You’re probably safer in the bathtub, but that’s no way to live life. 
self-acceptance

Accepting Yourself

Living a life of prosperity requires a complete rewiring of your brain, moving from seeking approval from others to becoming comfortable in your own skin – developing confidence in how you live your life.  The approval that matters is internal, not external. 
happiness

9 Prosperity Actions to Take Every Day

Success isn’t created in a microwave, but a slow cooker crock pot.  And the ingredients are your daily actions.  Here are nine that you can take every day to manifest a prosperous life.