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So this week we’ve been talking about when to exclude the people in our lives and when we cross the line and become judgmental.  Well I got a fascinating message on Facebook in that regard yesterda...

So in yesterday’s post we discussed letting go of negative people and introduced the question of when do you go too far, become judgmental, and isolate yourself from the world.  Now that’s a fasc...

When I was doing my coaching program, I said in a lesson, "But I do think you have a responsibility for yourself to set standards to ensure your needs are being met, and the relationship is healthy fo...

“You've got to be kidding? The first thing that comes to my mind when I read this is, ‘If I were single I'd make sure I didn't fall in love with someone like this!’ (more…)...

Last week we looked at ways we may feed our victim mentality by staying sick or broke.  Do you think you could do the same thing to threaten a healthy relationship?   Or prevent you from ever getti...

Every relationship takes work.  And sometimes I think the better they are, the more work they take.  Deep relationships like marriage take a tremendous amount of work.  Continuously.   (more&helli...

So I’ve been suggesting in the last couple posts that perhaps you’re still holding on to victim-hold.  And more than a few of you have acknowledged that in the comments.  But what about the rest...

“You can’t handle the truth!”  Remember when Jack Nicholson shouted that at Tom Cruise in the movie?  How true that is for so many people. (more…)...