And that’s why so many people are unhappy, even miserable. Because they haven’t down the introspection to discover their own philosophy; what really matters to them.
But don’t let that steal away the greatest gift, the thrill of the chase, savoring the process, and the joy of being on the path. The big step isn’t reaching the destination, it’s making the decision to go there.
It’s about how you break a negative cycle and reboot your life. Since that topic seems to be a relevant one for many of you, let’s continue the discussion. So let me share fifteen behaviors that I personally found very beneficial, as I rebooted my own life.
They may want the best for you; they may not want the best for you. (Usually, they actually do want good things for you.) It really doesn’t matter. All that really matters is that you be a critical thinker and analyze what is said and done to you. Recognize that a lot of the beliefs that people try and program you wit are evil.
So for example, let’s say you were abused as a child. Your abuser probably convinced you that you were responsible for bringing this abuse on yourself (a very common tactic from abusers). From this experience you developed low self-esteem and worthiness issues. That started a pattern of self-sabotage because subconsciously, you believed you were a bad person and didn't deserve good things.
If you asked me what separate the high level achievers from the average person I would say this: The achievers have no fear of getting out of their comfort zone. Their fear is staying in one.
The title above references self-imposed poverty, but it could also read self-imposed sickness, failure, or misery. Because preventing yourself from becoming wealthy, healthy, successful, or happy all arise from the same root cause.
From a prosperity standpoint, here’s the most important thing to remember: there are lots more countries not at war than at war, lots more people doing good things than bad things, and most zoos have a real zebra. But you’ll only be aware of all the great, positive and beneficial things happening around you if you seek them out and create channels where you’re exposed to them.