Category: Success

The Danger of Attachment

This kind of thinking is such a tragedy. Because once you let your attachment to something override your ability to question a premise or perform critical thinking – all learning, development, and growth stop.

Becoming a Better Version of You

The reason we don’t like to make changes, develop more wisdom, banish our ignorance, or even simply learn something new – is because that changes you into a new version of you – which conflicts with the old version of you.

Improving Yourself

No one really creates their future with a snap of their fingers or even setting a positive vision. You really create your daily habits, and they create your future.

Surrounding Yourself with Amazing People…

You have to find at least a couple people you trust, that you can be vulnerable with. People you don’t try and impress with the silly facades society seems to relish, but people who are impressed with you, just because you’re you.

Living in the Real World…

Understand something: those pix from your friends on Facebook and Instagram of their tropical vacations, sushi dinners with cool people, and front row seats at the U2 concert aren’t representative of their real lives. Nobody puts a pic on Instagram of their divorce hearing, and no one updates Facebook to say that they feel they’re about to relapse into their addiction.

The Problem is You

One of the commenters on that post said he felt he had good people around him, but they’re not really acting as a check on potentially addictive behavior. So what’s the cause? In scenarios like this, most of the time, the problem isn’t with the people around you. The problem is YOU.

Setting Goals You Actually Achieve

The type of goals you select and the nature of each, dramatically influences your prospect of accomplishing them. Here’s my go-to checklist for setting goals: