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The Illusion of Happiness

Many people have the illusion that getting something or someone will make them happy.

Building Up Your Self-Worth (Self-Esteem)

Last post we explored the suppressors, the things that cause you to doubt or diminish your self-worth. And I told you that self-worth can never come from things outside of yourself. Self-worth comes from the inside. So let’s look at some things that build up your self-worth.

Things that Destroy Your Self-Worth

Last post we looked at how people punish or self-sabotage themselves because they have worthiness issues. Their self-worth is so low that they consciously or subconsciously, don’t believe they deserve to be healthy, happy and prosperous. So it’s worth some more discussion on how you can actually build up your self-worth.

Fighting Depression and Narcissism

Many of the most devoted religious people I know are actually quite narcissistic. Their noble pursuit of peace, love and harmony seems noble enough, but it’s actually because they are so self-absorbed and seeking these things for themselves.

Fighting Against Circumstances

You often hear people complaining about the circumstances they are fighting. But that’s like fighting symptoms and ignoring the cause.

Becoming an Enlightened Person

You may worship Jesus or Buddha, idolize Mother Teresa or Golda Meir, or be inspired by the way Oprah lives her life. Your lifetime goal might be that people see you in a similar way. That’s a wonderful perspective to have. But there is only one way to create that reality and it won’t come from imitating those you admire.

Really Live Your Life!

One of the things I’m constantly reminding you is that you are not your thoughts – you must be the thinker of those thoughts. When you are conscious and mindful, you get to experience life in the moment and create more of the outcomes you desire. Just as you are not your thoughts, you don’t want to be your concepts either.

What Prevents You from a Breakthrough

This post let’s explore how other people can change you, or more specifically, prevent you from changing into the highest possible version of yourself.

Author: Randy Gage