I never realized it takes that long to rid negative! That's powerful thank you...
In the earlier posts this week, we’ve been looking at some meta-habits for high-level achievement. And an important one is creating the right energy in the environment around you.
Hopefully you’ve given yourself the gift of enjoying the Harry Potter book series. It’s a breathtaking dose of creative energy and brilliant fiction. But there are things in the books, which aren’t fiction, but reality.
And one of these is the Dementors…
"Dementors are among the foulest creatures that walk this earth. They infest the darkest, filthiest places, they glory in decay and despair, they drain peace, hope, and happiness out of the air around them... Get too near a Dementor and every good feeling, every happy memory will be sucked out of you. If it can, the Dementor will feed on you long enough to reduce you to something like itself... soulless and evil. You will be left with nothing but the worst experiences of your life."
I bet you know some dementors. Maybe work with some. You could even be married to one.
The truth is, it can take you ten hours to build your mindset back to normal after spending just one hour with a negative person. So eliminate as many from your life as you can. And in the case of the ones you can’t completely eliminate, be mindful of the time you spend with them.
Surround yourself with positive people. People who love life, believe in you and want for your highest good. Create an empowering environment around yourself, because that is the nurturing ecosystem that achievement flourishes in!
-RG
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I never realized it takes that long to rid negative! That's powerful thank you...
Stop calling my mother a Dementor (and the rednecks are not going to be too happy about you talk about their President this way, either).
Thank you for the post!
I needed it today! My most negative person in my life is my wife.. I have had a year struggeling with my eyes. My left filled with blood and no vision. With my right I only had 15% vision and IT made my life complicated. With very little understanding and a lot of fights about everything, I became a Dementor. I started seeing 80% again om one eye two weeks ago and I had my life back.. But I am lost in all the negativity and I struggle to fight my wife and her Demontor.
I just freel lost and out of hope. I read and think positive every morning and before I go to sleep...
Hanging in there, still...
Have a great day!!
Every morning when I drive to work I tell myself that I am health, wealthy and wise. Still working on being a better person. We all fall in tot he Dementor stage now and then, the more you work on getting out of it the shorter time you spend there I am finding.
Right on!
AMEN!
Meet people you have not seen for a longer time, feel inside you while spending time with them and you will find out two things:
* do the people still fit into your life and
* which way gives you a better feeling? The way you have chosen yet or are there any points you should adapt to stay on your path.
If you perceive a huge negativity, leave them as soon as possible, because it really takes so much time to raise your energy level again. I suggest a walk through the nature, if possible.
I never realized it takes that long to rid negative! That's powerful thank you...
Stop calling my mother a Dementor (and the rednecks are not going to be too happy about you talk about their President this way, either).
Thank you for the post!
I needed it today! My most negative person in my life is my wife.. I have had a year struggeling with my eyes. My left filled with blood and no vision. With my right I only had 15% vision and IT made my life complicated. With very little understanding and a lot of fights about everything, I became a Dementor. I started seeing 80% again om one eye two weeks ago and I had my life back.. But I am lost in all the negativity and I struggle to fight my wife and her Demontor.
I just freel lost and out of hope. I read and think positive every morning and before I go to sleep...
Hanging in there, still...
Have a great day!!
Every morning when I drive to work I tell myself that I am health, wealthy and wise. Still working on being a better person. We all fall in tot he Dementor stage now and then, the more you work on getting out of it the shorter time you spend there I am finding.
Right on!
AMEN!
Meet people you have not seen for a longer time, feel inside you while spending time with them and you will find out two things:
* do the people still fit into your life and
* which way gives you a better feeling? The way you have chosen yet or are there any points you should adapt to stay on your path.
If you perceive a huge negativity, leave them as soon as possible, because it really takes so much time to raise your energy level again. I suggest a walk through the nature, if possible.